Often people attract their energetic opposite. Someone who likes routine and calm may attract someone who prefers novelty and excitement.
However, what initially attracts can eventually annoy. No one navigates this phase of realizing their differences perfectly, but learning better skills can help. Since they often aren’t intuitive -therapy can help.
I work with neurodiverse and neurotypical individuals, couples and families toward better relational mental health. Check in if you’d like support. I offer free brief phone consultations and often can start new couples within a week.